Is Being a Passenger Princess All That Great?
There's something undeniably appealing about being a passenger princess. After all, who wouldn't want to kick back and relax instead of dealing with the stress of traffic? For some women, it's not just that they get to have their hands free, but that they also appreciate being taken care of by their partner. That said, always being the passenger isn't as great as people make it out to be...
1. They Don't Have to Deal with Traffic
If there's one reason women love handing the wheel to someone else, it's because they'd rather not be the one dealing with bumper-to-bumper traffic. Having to figure out which route is best? Weaving around slow or reckless drivers? No need to worry when you're a passenger princess.
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2. They Can Take a Nap
Another great thing about being a passenger princess? You can take as long a nap as you want. Gals need their beauty rest, after all! Long car rides are a lot more appealing when you know you can just drift off whenever you want.
3. They Can Enjoy the Scenery
When you're the one driving, it's hard to appreciate a beautiful landscape—you have to constantly check your mirrors and watch the road. Sitting in the passenger seat, though, means you're free to admire the scenery, which is especially great during road trips.
4. They Don't Have to Worry About Parking
For most, it's not the driving part they hate but the parking part. And since being the passenger means you won't need to stress about either one, it's no wonder women love letting men do all the work for them! And hey, if men are really as great behind the wheel as they say, why not let him put his money where his mouth is?
5. It Makes Them Feel Pampered
For some women, it's not so much that they don't want to drive, but that sitting back and having their partner take over makes them feel pampered. Who doesn't like being taken care of? It's especially meaningful when you're offered to be picked up after a long day to ensure you get home safe.
6. They Appreciate Chivalry
Women love being pampered, but they love being treated like royalty, too—thus, passenger princess. Even if it's just something as simple as having your partner open your car door for you, it's still a gesture that can make any woman get the butterflies.
7. They Get to Control the Music
Since the one behind the wheel is too focused on the road to be the DJ, that role is delegated to—who else?—the passenger princesses. Whether it's cranking the volume on everyone's favorite song or finding the perfect playlist, you get to make sure the music suits all moods and tastes.
8. They Can Eat and Drink More Easily
Some women simply like being passenger princesses because they want to enjoy their snacks uninterrupted. Some foods are way too messy to handle safely behind the wheel! Having both hands available is especially convenient during long road trips whenever hunger strikes.
9. They Don't Have to Worry About Bad Weather
It's not just chaotic traffic passenger princesses rather not deal with, but the bad weather. Whether it's heavy rain or thick fog, both require extra concentration, and the experience can be stressful even for confident drivers. When someone else is behind the wheel, women can trust someone else to navigate difficult conditions.
10. They Can Touch Up Their Makeup
Of course, the ladies also love handing over the wheel if they want to touch up their makeup in the car! Some mornings just don't give them enough time to get ready, after all. Fortunately, being the passenger princess means there's ample time to fix up concealer and mascara.
Of course, the passenger princess lifestyle isn't always as wonderful as it sounds. While having a personal chauffeur comes with plenty of perks, always giving up control of the wheel can lead to some not-so-great parts, too:
1. They Have No Control Over the Driving
Have a partner who likes speeding and driving recklessly? Then being a passenger probably feels less like you're being pampered and more like you're under duress. Not being able to control driving decisions can make some women feel more anxious than anything!
2. They Have to Follow Someone Else's Schedule
Being driven everywhere sure sounds convenient—except when you're dependent on someone else's availability. If your partner isn't ready to leave, you'll have to wait; if they are but you're not, you might be rushed. It gets more frustrating when you have certain errands or appointments to attend at a specific time.
3. They Can't Make Spontaneous Stops
Spot a store you want to visit? As a passenger princess, you might be able to get your partner to stop whenever you'd like, but more often than not, they won't simply change directions if it's out of the way. If you were behind the wheel instead, though, you could make the detour if you wanted.
4. They Might Get Carsick
If you're prone to motion sickness, sitting in the passenger seat may be even worse than taking the wheel. After all, you have nothing to focus on but the twists and turns! You definitely wouldn't feel much like a passenger princess if you're constantly trying not to retch.
5. They Have to Deal with Their Partner's Road Rage
Nothing makes a pleasant car ride more uncomfortable than being beside a driver who gets angry at everyone and everything. If your partner loves honking at every minor inconvenience, you'd probably rather not be seen next to them when other drivers give you both the stink eye.
6. They Can't Always Choose the Route
Maybe you know a shortcut, but being the passenger princess, you have no say. When someone else is driving, they might prefer a completely different route. Disagreeing about directions, minor as it might be, can still spiral into heated arguments, especially when neither person wants to admit the other might be right.
7. They Feel Bad About Asking for Rides
Sure, some partners might be perfectly happy to drive anywhere, but that doesn't mean women who regularly rely on someone else for transportation might start feeling guilty after asking for the tenth ride of the week. It might get to a point sometimes!
8. They Can't Control Everything
Whether it's rolling down the window, turning the thermostat up, or changing the choice of music, even passenger princesses don't always get the last word. After all, you're already being driven around; you can't expect everything to be catered to you, right?
9. They Get Worse at Driving
Over time, the more passenger princesses stay, well, passenger princesses, the worse they get at driving themselves. They may slowly lose confidence behind the wheel, which only makes them become even more dependent on others, which isn't a good sign.
10. They Lose Some of Their Independence
As we just mentioned, the biggest downside of always being the passenger princess is becoming too dependent on someone else. Plus, as you gradually stop using your own driving skills, you might eventually lose the freedom to grab your keys and go wherever you want.
